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i call this space ā€˜storiesā€™ cause iā€™m interested in what happens when we look a layer deeper šŸ”¦, ask different questions, and dare to say the thingsā€¦
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when hypergamy + enoughness collide: a reconciliation story.
Writing this piece ā€˜bout the value I place on dating ppl I judge to be successful (professionally / financially) surfaced a larger exploration roundā€¦
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failure(s) to listen: an anger story.
Buyer beware: this one contains explicitly sexual and (other) potentially triggering content. Pls proceed accordingly. + a note from the Ethicsā€¦
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āš°ļø on leaving labels: an ego death story āš°ļø
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failure(s) to listen: an anger story.
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šŸ§Š when it could be 'real': an ice cold fear story. šŸ§Š
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that real real dating surprise: a change story.
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letting my body decide: a break-up story.
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šŸ§Š when it could be 'real': an ice cold fear story. šŸ§Š
Thereā€™s someone new in [the dating] orbit. (for those tuning in regularly, its separate this vibe). Early on, I was aware of my judgements / labelsā€¦
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on junk DNA + asking the beauty-filled questions.
ernest is BACK + he's got wisdom.
āš°ļø on leaving labels: an ego death story āš°ļø
Disclaimer: this one talks bout food / eating / disordered eating - and does so frankly + graphically. If these are triggering topics for you - plsā€¦
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that real real dating surprise: a change story.
Iā€™m aware something feels soft(er), and that I didnā€™t see it coming. ā€“ Perhaps it was coming off months of feeling like I was in a boxing match w datingā€¦
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on giving up lies,to build your dream life.
an interview w lauren zander.
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managing energy flows: what human design can teach you 'bout you.
an interview w erin claire jones.
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āœ‹ 'no thanks' to friendship: a harder path story. āœ‹
Dispatches from recent weeksā€™ text convos w various dudes who Iā€™ve had various degrees of dating dynamics with: ā€œWe should be friends. We are both goodā€¦
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šŸ’Ŗ anatomy of a [difficult] conversation: an instead-of-sex story. šŸ’Ŗ
ā€˜...do you wanna connect our bodies?ā€™ he asks, in that ā€˜got nowhere to be anytime soonā€™ Saturday am tone of voice. I don't. Iā€™m fully in my headā€¦
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ed 08: this is what respect looks n feels like.
This weekā€™s ā€˜relatingā€™ has been designed for you to ā€˜doā€™ w a (romantic) partner. Iā€™ve included a prompt, an action, a song to guide the way + someā€¦
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