Today I’m publishing some words, thus concretizing a decision: I’m gonna stop doing the ENM version of an event I created called, ‘the feels’. ‘The feels’ for the ENM community had a muse. He’s 6’2, has the same platinum blonde hair color as me, and he made me feel like I might melt. He also was also an earthquake on my nervous system, and anarchically polyamorous.
wow, this resonates so much. im also going through an intense process of investigating what identifying as enm really means for me. for one, having recently come out of my first serious (not poly but enm) relationship, I have a whole new awareness and respect for what monog relationships offer. also, im mostly perpetually solo, so can't help trying to understand what enm really means to me. love these questions, thank you for raising them to the surface!
To see and hear the turbulence ahead and to pull yourself out and away from the stream current until you can hear your voice is courageous I think. I just hope you take the time to confirm your truth and can live it.
wow, this resonates so much. im also going through an intense process of investigating what identifying as enm really means for me. for one, having recently come out of my first serious (not poly but enm) relationship, I have a whole new awareness and respect for what monog relationships offer. also, im mostly perpetually solo, so can't help trying to understand what enm really means to me. love these questions, thank you for raising them to the surface!
feel this all oh so much - ty for the note
To see and hear the turbulence ahead and to pull yourself out and away from the stream current until you can hear your voice is courageous I think. I just hope you take the time to confirm your truth and can live it.
me too, frank. me too :)